Thursday, July 31, 2014

Cuffed, Tied and Satisfied

Oh boy, do I have a book to recommend. Sex educator and author - Jaiya - has hit this one out of the park. Or perhaps I should say she spanked it.

Jaiya's new book, Cuffed, Tied and Satisfied explains kink in easy-to-understand language with stories, examples and deep research. 

Jaiya and her partner spent eighty days exploring dominance and submission with each other. Her journal entries during this experience are powerful and educational.

I'm a fan. If the subject matter intrigues you, you will be too. Here's the link to get it.

(Note: This link is part of Amazon's affiliate program. If you buy the book, I get an itsy bitsy piece of that purchase. So thank you.)

Thursday, July 10, 2014

Violent Sexual Fantasies?

Girl Boner Radio is at it again! I'm thrilled to be featured in the "Sex-pert Celebration" honoring the 25th podcast where August McLaughlin takes on her listener's most challenging questions. Like this one:

How can someone explore violent sexual fantasies? 

Thanks, August, for inviting me to weigh in! Click here to listen to my response. (Which starts at 1:40.)

Saturday, July 5, 2014

Curious is the New Sexy

You asked for it, you got it. My new workshop, "Kinky Curious: A Workshop of Discovery and Discussion" is coming to Los Angeles on July 26th. Details below!

Ready for an enticing event with an open-minded group? Interested in talking about sex in a safe and welcoming environment? Want to see a portion of the sexy play, "Coming Out Kinky"? It’s going to be an educational and fun session!

Here's what we'll do:

Opening Circle: This activity creates a safe, comfortable environment to talk about sexuality.

Coming Out Kinky: Jean will perform a sizzling excerpt of her show about erotic exploration and empowerment.

Q&A and Lively Discussion: the sharing during this section can be vulnerable, powerful and sexy

Sexual Bucket List Game – It's a fun way to discover avenues of curiosity

Cost: $30

To reserve your spot, email

About Kinky Jean: When Jean Franzblau was a little girl, she believed that sex must be bad and made the impossible commitment to never be sexual. The show tracks her unusual path of exploration as she discovers that sex is a natural and wonderful part of the human experience. Jean is the writer/performer and producer of the show, "Coming Out Kinky - A Grown Up Comedy." She's also a corporate training professional with experience giving presentations in six countries for up to three hundred people. She offers workshops, keynotes and performances on sexual esteem and empowerment - like this one!

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Monday, June 30, 2014

Claiming My Sexual Freedom

After years of blocking my sexual energy, I had a health scare. I think there's a connection. Expressing my sexuality consensually is a human right that I claim for myself. Won't you join me in becoming an advocate for sexual freedom? Check out the Woodhull Sexual Freedom Alliance to learn more about what's happening! 

Saturday, June 21, 2014

Sexual Esteem, Part 3 - Body Image

We all deserve to feel happy and whole. That includes how we feel about our sexuality. In this third video in the series on Sexual Esteem, we tackle body image. The cards are stacked against us given the pervasive messages in the media that try to convince us all that we are not okay. Here are two simple but powerful exercises that you can try right now to improve your body image. Try! And let me know what you think below.

Tuesday, June 3, 2014

Sexual Esteem, Part 2

I waited a few days before posting this one. A feeling of terror: am I really going to put this out there? I've watched it a few times now. I see a kind woman who cares about the viewer and is trying to make a difference in the world. So I guess this is a keeper.

I give you video #2 in my series about sexual self esteem.

Monday, June 2, 2014

Sexual Esteem, Part 1

We all deserve to feel happy and whole. That includes how we feel about our sexuality. This is the first in a series of videos about sexual esteem. In Part 1, we explore a simple exercise called the Sexual Did Well List. Join in, try it out, and comment below.